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I see those photos and I vomit in my mouth a little bit. I even knew then that it was about low self-esteem. I thought it would be a book about male insecurity. I think it would have been a lot louder. Strauss: We all have narcissistic mothers. So what happened? What happens when you grow up with your identity being squashed by this mother who never sees you but only sees herself, is you grow up with a fear of being overpowered by the feminine again.
Strauss: Right? So when I would do seminars [about The Game ], I would say, let me ask you, how many people here were raised with a narcissistic or dominant mother figure?
Every time it was about 80 percent of the room. Gilsinan: How did you come to that realization? Was that a product of therapy? Strauss: Yeah. I met a great woman and we were in a great relationship. And I cheated on her. I got caught. And I felt so bad. I thought I was a nice guy, I really did, you know? And I thought, how can I break the heart of, how could I hurt somebody who loves me and be so selfish?
So I checked into sex addiction rehab. Even when I was there, I was cynical about it. Of course there was a dominant therapist to quote unquote emasculate me, so of course it was rough for me. And then there was a moment where I told her the story of my childhood. It was like a movie. All of a sudden your whole past story just snaps into line and I saw who I was. And that was the moment everything changed. Gilsinan: Stop it! Strauss: No, thank you. So the knowledge is not enough. Gilsinan: One of my favorite moments [in The Game ] is towards the end, where one of your friends in the pickup-artist community starts to dissect your game.
The guys would practice taking photos with each other to see how they could look more dominant in a photo. They engineer their behavior to such an insane degree. But I remember asking a male friend at the time if there was an equivalent set of rules for women. Like surely there are female-specific tricks to, in effect, manipulate people into sleeping with you. What do you think? Strauss: To answer the first part of what you were saying, I think yes, getting over social anxiety is a great thing.
But the problem is wanting the outcome. Strauss: Exactly. Because, while he did patent the style, Steve P. In the end, girls paid Steve P. Because, mind you, he has mastered the sociological ones. Obviously, it starts with you finding a girl you like to have sex with. Then, you make the move to meet her, presenting yourself as an alpha male both to her and her group of loyal girlfriends. Of course, memorable lines and jokes are on the menu at this stage, but, less obviously, subtle insults and negs as well.
Which, in the preparation for the final stage, you actually do give her, by separating her from the group and entertaining her for a while. Three indications long! A touch, a squeeze, a romantic gesture, a seductive smile — any three would do! This is the perfect time for the closure: asking to kiss. It was through Mystery that Neil Strauss entered the underground seduction scene. He signed up for a workshop organized by him, and went from there to learning all the tips and tricks there are to know to becoming a PUG with a technique of his own.
The first step is a staple in the business: a great opening line. In other words, for a long period of time, you mainly ask and listen. Finally, the fourth step, is the physical part: consuming the relationship. And you can see how this can grow into a problem!
According to Strauss, because of human biology, learning to become a good pick-up artist is not that much more difficult than learning to become, say, a good tennis player! And acquiring enough skill may get you in the heart — or, rather, pants! Including Britney Spears.
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